IS IT A CAREER OR LIFE? IS IT A WANT OR A NEED?

When trying to juggle family, life, work and play, the question often arises how much time should get spent where? Is it a matter of what area needs more attention or what needs to be escaped? What do you do when your life is your career, play and family all rolled into one? Is there any real division? That was a question that arose during one of our readings recently, and has been asked several times over, so we thought we would address it here. Our life is one where we live our day to day existence with our abilities those abilities have turned into a career which has allowed us to help so many people on their journey. With us, there really is no division of time. We sometimes have our children with us for readings, events, lectures etc. and sometimes it's just the two of us. SO...the answer is it is our life first, a career second.

That being said, we approach the subject of wants vs. needs. When you have these abilities,  there are a lot of times a client will want or need something and it's almost midnight, but they are in need, do we get out of bed, make a pot of coffee and get to work? Sometimes, each scenario is different. If it is a true need we tend to know that and help out when we can. Needs are different from wants, do you need to know if your brother is going to come back from being lost in the Bermuda triangle because you have been awake for the last 10 days that he has been missing? More than likely, yes. Do you need to know if your pet really likes the peanut butter treats more than the beef flavored ones? More than likely, no, you can wait until tomorrow to schedule an appointment. The point is that yes, we love helping people with the gifts we have been given and are eager to do so, just as our clients are eager to meet with us. Yes we are "normal" everyday people that have children, enjoy being with our friends and family, and we just happen to be psychics and mediums.

 

It's all about the choices...

Doing what we do, we meet so many different types of people, both living and deceased. In this past few weeks, we have met people that design custom jewelry, own and run a really cool local bar/grill, spirits that like to influence those around them, a spirit that was murdered, the spirit that committed the murder, spirits that were essential to founding this country and those that cared for them as they aged and became ill. What I love is that all of us have the same thing in common, at the end of the day, we are all just people. Freewill dictates how we live out our days, yes, there are certain aspects of our lives that must occur and are predetermined for us to learn necessary lessons. That being said, we all start off with a relatively clean slate. The choices we make can have an influence on so many people both past and present. We actively choose to help spirit move forward in this and the afterlife. Not everyone can do that, but everyone can help each other to move forward in this life. When you realize that one life is no more important than another and we all have something to offer, you can take that and start to make a difference. If we all just take a moment to look around, get out of our electronic daily grind and notice the world around us, we can get back to understanding that we are all the same at our core, we all want to love and be loved, which is about understanding, caring and respect. Let's get ourselves to focus on love and moving forward. Make that choice...

First Post!

My wife and I will be blogging on this site with the goings on of our daily life as psychic mediums, spouses, parents, and friends as well as events and strange occurrences.  We will also be answering your questions here! We plan to make this fun and insightful peek into our lives! Welcome!